Ritual Kink: The Inner journey
Inhabit your Full Power, through Shamanic BDSM:
a 4 month 1:1 initiatory journey
Imagine this:
You feel more worthy of being who you are. More worthy of wanting what you want.
You’re more playful, more decisive, more vulnerable and more assertive. You rest back into your seat of power.
When you make decisions, they come from your body.
From a knowing, grounded certainty and a sense of aligned direction.
In daily life, this looks like:
You say yes faster.
You say no more clearly.
You stop negotiating with yourself about what you already know.
You speak sooner, ask more directly.
You tell someone you like them.
You ask for the kind of touch you want.
You name when something isn’t working.
That project you’ve been circling? You’ve started it.
That relationship that needed to shift? It has.
You feel more present in your body - which means stronger boundaries, better creativity. and more life-force available to you.
Your world feels bigger, richer, more alive.
You’re not chasing a future version of yourself anymore, because you’ve arrived.
You’re no longer standing at the edge of your powerful potential. Because now you’re inhabiting it.
For a long time, you’ve known the version of yourself you sensed was possible. You’ve already tasted it, experienced it through medicine work, Tantra, meditation or the retreat that showed you a new reality. But it didn’t quite stick, until now.
Imagine you live within your power and agency and move from there.
You can access more of who you are - divine, human and messy.
You’re less fragmented,
Your breath is low and deep in your body.
You’re present for all of your human experiences: pleasure, discomfort, desire, and truth.
You’re not hiding from your life anymore: you second-guess yourself less, and you trust yourself more than you ever have.
Not because you’ve forced or faked confidence
but because your body has learned it’s safe to be fully here.
And from that safety, your solid confidence naturally grows.
Layers of shame have dropped away. Shame about wanting more, needing more, shame about who you’ve decided to be and shame about wanting a bigger life.
Does this seem familiar?
You’re an experienced sacred sexuality explorer and self-confessed personal development slut, and you’re quietly frustrated.
You’ve powerful and medicinal experiences before, with Tantra, kink, medicine or relational work. Intense, perhaps deep experiences that touched forgotten parts, shook something loose, maybe even felt initiatory in the moment. And yet, once the afterglow has faded, you find yourself returning to the same patterns and internal stories.
You might be curious about playing with power dynamics, or be a seasoned kinkster, and you know these spaces can be transformational, but something has felt missing.
Spanking for the sake of sensation - or rope play that offers a momentary taste of surrender, but no lasting reorganisation inside. Sensation and intensity, without true meaning or integration.
You’re not looking for more edge for the sake of edge, or another random story to add to the pile.
You’re looking for impact - an experience that changes the fabric of your life.
Ritual Kink Sessions are for you if you’re ready to move beyond meaningless intensity into intentional, shamanic BDSM experiences that create lasting change.
Ritual Kink is for you, if:
❋ You’re an experienced sacred sexuality, personal development or kink explorer. You don't need to be a kink expert - just to be able to stay present with your process and know your own limits.❋ You've done plenty of personal development and inner work, and know you're ready for a deeper initiatory journey
❋ You want your erotic and kink experiences to create tangible change that changes the way you eat, sleep and live out your purpose❋ You sense your next edge lives inside a consciously held BDSM container
❋ You’re willing to meet yourself with honesty, responsibility, and curiosity. You're no longer outsource your growth, and are ready to step through your next threshold.
In our four months together:
We will use intentional, shamanic BDSM as a ritual technology for transformation.
We’ll work in a fully equipped BDSM dungeon. Not for performance, aesthetics or recreational play, but as disciplined, consciously designed practice space where the tools and toys of kink can be used for:
* Integrating shadow and integrating your innate power
* Rewriting patterns
* Embodying aspects of yourself
* Building your inner authority as your compass
* Creating lasting nervous-system-level change
Each month we build and integrate a new ritual journey that builds on the last.
These won’t be just unique one-off experiences that become distant memory, they are ritual thresholds that change how you live your life.
"The soul loves risk; it is only through the door of risk that growth can enter".
John O’Donohue
“During the in-person session, I felt - everything! At times uncertain. Totally terrified for a short moment. Disconnected. Exhilarated. Totally engaged. Upbeat, downbeat. Defeated. Unfuckwithable. Vulnerable. Like an open-hearted, vibrant loving (powerful) child. Bored. Emotional pain. Excited. Peaceful, trusting.”
Each month, a ritual journey:
Each month we will spiral through a new Ritual Kink journey - working with your core themes and what’s present for you each month.
Intention setting call, (online, 60 mins)
After completing an online form capturing your intentions, history, curiosities, and boundaries, we meet for a collaborative intention setting call.
We will:
* Clarify what wants to shift, explore edges and patterns, Deepen your intention and design the ritual container together
This ensures each session is precise, intentional, and aligned with what’s truly alive for you.
Ritual Kink journey (in person, 2.5 hours)
This is where the work happens.
We create your ritual scene together, designed to touch the core of the transformational edge you’re working with, and support you to step beyond it.
We will meet in a fully equipped BDSM studio (or another studio if this is more suitable. We will bring into focus the core intention you would like to bring in, which may involve:
Old wounding, a story ready to be rewritten, parts of you longing to be witnessed and transformed or an aspect seeking embodiment and expression.
Elements of the session may include:
* Power exchange, Impact play, Bodywork, Restriction and bondage, Sensory play, somatic work,Archetypal embodiment
The focus is not on pleasure, pain, or eros, though all are welcome.
The focus is on creating the conditions required for genuine internal shift.
We step into the unknown together.
I act as a loving guide and co-creator, taking on the role we agree on (domme, guide, protector, nurturer, etc.).
You choose, moment by moment, to stay present to whatever arises whether that’s challenge, resistance, breakthrough, emotion, or bliss.
At the end, there’s plenty of time to wind down and transition so you leave grounded and resourced.
Integration call (online, 60 minutes)
This session supports bringing everything together - so that what happens in the session doesn’t stay in the session, but becomes woven into the fabric of the way you live your life.
We will:
* Fully debrief your experience, explore insights and shifts, identify what is reorganising and map how to integrate what emerged into your daily life - through practice, decisions and practical shifts.
Plus: Telegram support between sessions Between sessions, you’ll have a dedicated space where you can continue to reflect, ask questions and receive support.
I’m an experienced intimacy facilitator and seasoned kink ritualist. I’ve trained in the realms of coaching, Tantra, Conscious Sexuality, Bodywork and Shamanic Kink. My approach is one of human-to-human understanding, kindness, honesty and permission for expression.
This work is held with:
* Strong containment, care and permission
* Clear intention
* Deep respect for the nervous system
* Respect for psychological and somatic pacing
Though we will inevitably dance in the unknown as we work together, you will not be pushed beyond your capacity - and we will design your experience together with choice, consent and a pace that unfolds organically.
My approach
Nuts & Bolts
Ready to inhabit your full power through intentional kink and transformational edge work?
I’m delighted to share this new offering at an incredible rate for those saying YES before 23rd March.
£750 per month for 4 months
or £2600 paid in full
The in-person will be held in a clean, comfortable and fully equipped dungeon studio near Angel, London. If this isn’t possible for you - other arrangements can be made. Reach out and we can chat about the possibile options.